tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6904645474263850471.post7158336125980981861..comments2023-06-26T08:56:20.340-04:00Comments on More Peas: How do you say goodbye, how is goodbye possiblePeahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13731555073388642709noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6904645474263850471.post-3156601117392731802010-12-04T22:00:06.748-05:002010-12-04T22:00:06.748-05:00its fine really.
i honestly understand.
i didnt qu...its fine really.<br />i honestly understand.<br />i didnt quite understand the comments they were making either. <br />saying everything happend for a reason just was way out of line for the situation. i caouldnt understand how ppl could honetly think that. but it became apparent that they werent totally aware of the entire thing. but it had always been like that. he has always been treated like his mistakes would just go away. <br /><br /><br />as his friend i kinda want him to sit there for as long as they can hold him. this is one mistake that obliterates anything ever said or done between us and now its time for him to pay for what he stole.<br /><br /><br />i send my prayers ,love concern and the sincerest apology for a grest loss. i only wish words could adequately express what they body wants to convey.<br /><br />as for maida.<br /> well, i hope this dosent come iff as werid but i wrote this for her.<br /><br /><br /><br />we were the same age.<br />born the same year. <br />maybe we liked similar things?<br />maybe we couldve been friends?<br />but from the beginnig we were sisters.<br />my sister.<br />in god.<br />gods sweet child.<br />did you have to go home so early?<br />was there no time for that first meeting?<br /> that first laugh?<br />fight?<br /> cry?<br />all moments i would have cherished.<br />your sweet smile is burned <br />into the minds of those who loved you<br />but i'll never know the warmth you had to share<br />when you look down from those streets of gold<br />hear these words and take them with you.<br />you are missed<br /><br /><br />R.I.P Maida.M.Sy<br /><br />"a friend lost. an angel gained"sherhainoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6904645474263850471.post-79594385960037667722010-11-23T10:35:10.466-05:002010-11-23T10:35:10.466-05:00I appreciate your comment. And see here's the ...I appreciate your comment. And see here's the thing- every time there's been messages from the people who know him there's always the mention of how much they "feel for him" or how much it hurts to "see him go through this"- why do we need to hear about that? Why does everyone need to mention what HE's going through? None of us give flying fuck or even want to know what he's going through. If I never hear his name again, life would be just fine. Just an etiquette tip- when one is offering condolences for the family of a victim, it's not a good idea to mention the murderer-even if it is in critique. I really believe your sincerity but please do not mention this person again. I am a human being- I know that he also has people in his life who love him and are also being affected by this but right now we're not interested. One of the reasons-and I didn't want to post about it because I didn't want to make any posts ABOUT him but-he's been getting so many "I hate you"s because of his decision to post pictures of himself in the hospital just hours after this happened prompting this huge pity party on his Facebook page, leaving out the important details of what happened. It took everything inside me not to send messages to each of the "enabling" comments that his friends and family left him. Being an alcoholic is not a good enough excuse and some of those "oh just learn from your mistakes" and "this kind of thing happens everyday" comments on his page were absolutely infuriating and disgusting. No wonder his life ended up this way with so many "enablers" surrounding him. I know a lot of people sent angry messages which was probably why eventually his page got hidden. We're all also angry about the fact that according to witnesses, people tried to stop him and that he has a previous driving record. I'm really sorry to go off on you. I really and truly appreciate your kind words. As a Christian I believe in forgiveness and I pray that we can someday forgive as God will forgive. I will pray for his family and out of respect for their privacy I never mentioned his name and never will.Peahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13731555073388642709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6904645474263850471.post-78102154335789268292010-11-22T21:08:40.663-05:002010-11-22T21:08:40.663-05:00im sorry. it shames me that it was my friend drivi...im sorry. it shames me that it was my friend driving that car. it pains me to lose a friend but even worse that he could be so selfsish and carless to take someone so beautiful with so much life to live. it hurts to see him take hits from the military and the civilian world but he deserves eveything he gets.<br />i hope you and yours can get through this anyway you can.<br /><br />r.i.p maisherhaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00240400855479837373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6904645474263850471.post-28630592669807491442010-11-18T09:19:01.916-05:002010-11-18T09:19:01.916-05:00oh Pea...i'm so sorry. i started reading in d...oh Pea...i'm so sorry. i started reading in disbelief. that is horrible....please take care of yourselfjustmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02355529145817481156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6904645474263850471.post-27565113010663179622010-11-17T20:12:28.932-05:002010-11-17T20:12:28.932-05:00This is so terribly sad. I am so sorry for Mai...This is so terribly sad. I am so sorry for Mai's family and for yours. God love ya, sweetie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6904645474263850471.post-33737848033628884512010-11-16T12:21:17.186-05:002010-11-16T12:21:17.186-05:00Oh my gosh Pea, I am so so so sorry for your loss....Oh my gosh Pea, I am so so so sorry for your loss. I hope that guy meets his own untimely death, after suffering greatly for what he did, and I hope your family can find some sort of solace.super deshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04347176046518919059noreply@blogger.com